I'm soon turning 18, and I'm anxious regarding my future. What would your advice be as my senior, in regards to interacting and dealing with the opposite gender.

Grand-Juggernaut6937 · 2024-04-01T16:48:14+00:00

Mostly treat them the same way you would your mother, even if they’re the same age or younger.

Just let them be right and do what has to be done once they’ve left you alone.

Learn to take advantage of all those evil patriarchal systems and boys clubs. Women are given a massive advantage for hiring and will absolutely do the same to you. But at the same time learn to convince people you’re painfully feminine when it makes you fit in more.

If you work with a lot of women dress well and take care of your body. They say they don’t treat good looking people differently but it’s absolutely not true. True for men too but women will treat you as a completely different person in the office if they’re attracted to you.

And lastly remember your job is to make your boss happy, not to be the best employee or to be right. Always get along with the gals and don’t admit you think your employer gives them preferential treatment. Girls always win by default so you’ll have to be smarter, faster, and harder working to compensate.

wilsonreeves · 2024-04-02T12:55:40+00:00

Never get married.
May seem Hypocritical of me, happily married 37 years. But I am lucky.
Understand the laws regarding spouses. I am not saying don't be in love, children, home . Just Understand that the legality of Marriage then divorce is the number one destroyer of your wealth or wealth to be. No one gets out of divorce better off.

DoctorStorm · 2024-04-02T00:07:22+00:00

"With regards to dealing with the opposite gender"

Be polite, never be alone where there aren't any cameras and witnesses, trust your head - not your heart, certainly not your dick, and don't date until you're in your 30s.

Focus on acquiring skills/trades/talents. This takes time. Invest in yourself. Soon you'll be making $65k. Then before you know it you'll be blowing your mind trying to figure out how you made it to $125k/year. This is the decade of your 20s if you want it to be, I'm being dead honest with you.

You'll want to fuck, that's fine. Go to Vegas, pay $500 every few months, and fuck. Porn carries you the rest of the way. Again, dead honest with you.

When you come out the other side, fast-forwarding 10 years, you'll know what an IRA/401k is, you'll have already invested some of your money, you'll probably own land and be thinking about what to do with it, you'll see a reasonable, logical path forward in this world for yourself.

None of this involved dating these fucking women. When you're scarred up, have some hair on that face, have a bank account worth a shit, and get a little swing to that dick, you'll take your passport and go where you are wanted and treated best.

This is the best investment you will ever make in, literally, your entire life.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-04-02T03:50:45+00:00

I left an OP a few days ago about how half of the people who beat me up when I was a little kid were girls. I suspect when I was in the 3rd grade a girl gave me a concussion. Oddly enough, it got no response, so I took it down. I probably should have left it up.

The_Girth_Cannon · 2024-04-02T02:14:50+00:00

First of all, get off this side of social media - You will ruin your own image of a relationship. Every man here got badly burned when they were young by a girl, and they've never recovered. They've taken the doomer pill, and now surround themselves with articles and anecdotes and stories to justify their warped world view.

The real advice, for someone your age, would be to invest in yourself. Learn HOW to learn, and how to be consistent. Learn your weaknesses, if you find yourself distracted often, look up ways to re-center your focus. Set a schedule and commit to it. Set goals for yourself and put yourself first. Hobbies, Skills, Education, Style, Language. Mold yourself into who you believe you want to be.

Then do it all over again when you're 25, and again when you're 30, and 40, 50... you're always going to change and want something more/different.

Don't waste your potential.

Learn how to be confident and funny, and learn how to tease without being mean.

You're not going to make everyone happy, but if you're making NOBODY happy... you're probably doing it wrong.

AS FOR WOMEN:

Treat them like a normal person, because they are, they're just like you, wondering how to act and fit into the adult world. Don't commit to one person, keep your options open, sample different personalities, see what clicks. Don't be afraid to have friends that you don't fuck. The human experience is beautiful and it doesn't have to be destroyed by sex all the time.

Speaking of sex, when you do have it, it should be FUN both ALL people involved. Consent is obviously important and a good rule of thumb is... if you have any doubts in your mind, either don't do it, or just ask. Feeling SAFE is a big plus for the vast majority of women, so play into that.

Work out, brush your teeth, read a lot of books, watch lectures, and don't keep your mind so open that your brain falls out.

Good luck.

Title	I'm soon turning 18, and I'm anxious regarding my future. What would your advice be as my senior, in regards to interacting and dealing with the opposite gender.
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Date	April 1, 2024 4:30 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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