I'm sorry if this might already have been asked. I've been reading books like The Proper Care And Feeding of Husbands and others recommended through the sub.

I've noticed that I have a masculine energy, and although superficially I'm embracing a more feminine and sweet demeanor (dressing up, makeup, wearing earrings even if it's just to stay at home, for example, being flirty and in a lighter mood), I still have a very masculine and aggressive way of thinking (this is all recent for me and I'm trying to get out of the way of my husband so he can step up). I don't recall ever being "soft" and feminine, so I'd really appreciate if you could recommend me some good books to get in touch with my feminine energy/softer side.

I really feel like I'm missing out and I'm trying to undo years of "work like a man, live like a man" energy. Thank you!!