Hello Players,

I need some help analysing my field report. This could be a long one. I'm gonna put in as much detail as I can. Hopefully easy to read.

Connected with the lady through OLD. Hinge. Asked her out and I set up the day and time.

I planned to meet at a park for a walk and do a picnic. I asked her to get beer, she did albeit shitty one and that too the beer was warm. Lol On the day, I brought coffee and I had apples at home so just cut them and brought in a box. She liked the gesture, was like you are gonna get famous amongst my friends that the guy who brought apples to the date. haha!

Anyways, We met on time. Hugged. Walked around, I guided her around the park basically excuses to kino.

It was very windy but she braced it and I was fucking shivering. Haha!

After exploring the park, we sat side by side on a picnic bench to eat and drink.

Conversations flowing. Jokes clicking, she is laughing. I complimented her a lot. Did not receive any compliments in return :( Lots of eye contact and touching from my side.

I tried to kiss. She rejected. She is like too soon. Okay fine. Touch and conversations flowing. I did not gauge anything uncomfortable or hesitation to my kino. Seemed like she liked it. (I hope, or probably I was tipsy)

It's now been 3+ hours, I'm sober to drive. Time to head home. I ask her plans for the day, she is like no plans. Ask her if you wanna drink more. She's like yes. I was driving so I can't drink more until I drop the car. Asked her to come home but she declines. Invite her to a park near my place. She agrees for the park plan.

So we drive. I live on the other side of town from her home basically going further away from her home.

Stopped by a store picked up beer. At the cashier she removed her card and so did I, she was like let me get this. The cashier said to me today is your lucky day. I was like I'll be paying her in other ways later. Cashier and I both laughing our asses off. Hahaha

Anyways,

I parked and then walked to the park holding hands. Sat on a bench. Drank, conversed, touched, eye contact. Tried kissing again, rejected. Spent 2 more hours. Drinking chatting.

Beer over. It's late, sun has set. Time to go home. She is like I've to buy food for my home. There's a shop nearby I can take her. I tell her I really need to pee can we go home drop the bags, pee and then walk to the store. She is like okay.

We walk to my place. I'm just like you are free to wait outside or come inside. She said okay then came inside.

Did my deed. Showed her the home. I looked at her intently, did not seem like she wanted to do anything physical. After so many rejects, I did not escalate either. You may say this was the moment to escalate. But I literally did not guage any intention from her body language.

Anyways,

We left home, walked to the store holding hands. She bought her stuff and then booked uber to go home. Parted with a long hug. Told her to message once home. She did message.

Overall the date lasted around 6+ hours.

TLDR: Went on a 6+ hour park and picnic date. With her being comfortable to come home as well. Attempted to kiss multiple times and rejected every time.

Some thoughts:

She rejected all my kiss attempts I guess 3-4 times. At one point after rejecting, she was like don't ruin the date. Maybe I was acting desperate?

Even then, she was comfortable to spend so much time and also come home. So confusing.

I also feel I should've acted busy and ended the date after the first park rather than dragging it on and ruining my liver further.

I haven't messaged her yet. I'll message after couple of days, when I'm able to plan date 2.

What are your thoughts?