Alright, six months ago I had this girl all over me and I tried to lose my virginity to her but I couldn't get it up long enough. I had a semi and was in her for maybe 10 seconds. I dropped her as I was not attracted to her at all and originally just wanted to lose my vcard.

Yesterday, a different girl invites me over. I escalate, demolish shit tests etc. Everytime she got drunk she would send me teasy nudes, and she has an amazing body and I've wanted her for a while. Again, I couldn't get it up. She gave me head, I was 60% hard for a few seconds but lost it before I could slip inside her.

She told me I'll be fine next time and I left as I had to go to work. I just feel shit, I wanted to fuck her so badly but my dick just was not complying. I'm 18 and get healthy erections all the time, randomly, when I wake up and if I masturbate. I lift, I train BJJ, I eat right, so nothing is wrong with my T levels. I think I have desensitised myself thanks to porn, so I'm planning on going pornfree and doing some healthy masturbation described in No More Mr Nice Guy.

What other things can I do? And how can I prevent this from happening in the future?