Woman perceives me as being more attractive than her and says it's intimidating...What?

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-08-05T12:04:26+00:00

yup.

Agree and Amplify:

"Well you better get to the gym. I don't date 2's unless, it's 2 at a time!"

FrameWalker · 2015-08-05T15:34:49+00:00

This is girl game. Ignore the words follow the actions. Don't take it seriously

kingofpoplives · 2015-08-05T17:52:46+00:00

She likes to be the one with the power in her relationships. She may end up breaking it off because she would rather have a guy who is less hot who she can more easily control. A lot of girls are actually like this with the guys they chose for LTRs.

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-08-05T12:50:44+00:00

Just think about it objectively. If a woman thinks she's hot shit and you're hotter than her, that scares her. It just means you have the power in the interaction that she usually feels like she wields. And it IS something she should be scared of because that means you have more control over her emotions & ultimately how she will feel and / or what she will do. As you should know... a woman who thinks you're more valuable than her (or what she usually can get) will go to quite extensive lengths to make you happy, sometimes to her detriment. I've known women who've been damaged by too many alphas for her to cope with that she went and got herself a beta. Not that most women would do that (and keep in mind they have an open relationship where only she can go fuck around...so you wouldn't want this anyway) but just keep that in the back of your head... when she perceives you as much higher than herself, that means you wield quite a bit of power over her.

That being said, just ignore it and dominate her. Amplify or just smile and ignore her. Her saying that might as well be an interaction where 2 countries are fighting and one says "we're weak right now and we'd suffer damages if you attacked us". So in your head thank her for giving you the heads up that she's weak and that you have the ammo to make her completely submit to you.

secret_barber · 2015-08-05T13:23:04+00:00

Enjoy your success - you need your girl to feel like you would be perfectly fine if the relationship ended, at anytime. If anything, agree that you have options, but that you have chosen to be with her.

abdada · 2015-08-05T13:07:57+00:00

Eye contact, slow head nod, finish me with a smile.

Title	Woman perceives me as being more attractive than her and says it's intimidating...What?
Author	QuestionAccount20
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	August 5, 2015 11:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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