What are the dos and don’ts of daygame/ Cold Approach and is it acceptable in today’s society?

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-06T02:48:06+00:00

Here are my rules:

Never go out for the purpose of picking up girls. It’s creepy and it will absolutely get noticed. Heck, I used to see guys in the park all the time hanging around, smoking a cigarette and jumping on the first single girl they would see sitting on a park bench by herself. I’ve seen guys jump across the street to accost some young lady. Etc. it’s a very needy behavior and will end up in rejection most of the time. Women see you from a mile away and they will think you are a weirdo who has no other ways of meeting women other than randomly bothering strangers on the street.
That being said, always walk with a purpose but be open minded in case you see a woman that makes you stop in your tracks. It is best to incorporate places where a lot of women congregate in your daily routine. Parks, cafes, shopping streets, etc. Just expand your route to include those, but always have a purpose. Somewhere you are going, something you need to be doing.
Here is the secret to sex appeal. If you think you are sexy and you know it, you will be sexy to a vast majority of women. Believing you are sexy means that you dress sexy, groom sexy, smell sexy, behave sexy, and think only sexy thoughts. I know, sounds cheesy, but you can’t believe you are sexy and be overweight, scrawny and dressed in a hoodie with pizza stains on it. Always be dressed to kill. If you don’t know how to dress, you need help from a female.
I don’t do canned lines. Look at the woman and notice what you find attractive about her. Look well and make sure it’s something that’s special about her. Then you go over and tell her what you found attractive about her. Generic compliments will not go well. But a compliment like “Wow, this dress really accentuates your figure” shows that you find something special about her.
When approaching, it is very important to not have made a decision in your head that you want this girl. This is akin to seeing a car in the street for sale and saying “I need to get this car at all cost”. You have no idea if it’s a lemon, if it’s been abused, if it leaks, etc. A smart buyer takes their time to make a final decision. Same applies to women. If you get sold on her merely because she has a cute face or great tits, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage. You already want her and she has no idea if she wants you. So you end up chasing. But if you appreciate her looks and expression interesting talking to her without making a decision about whether you want her or not immediately, it will be much more likely that she will try to qualify herself to you. Especially if there is mutual attraction.
How you ask for a date is a big differentiator. Treat a date invitation as a reward you are giving her for being to e type of girl you want to get to know better. Don’t treat it as her doing you a favor or as bribe to get her to go out with you. Say something like “Hey, looks like we are connecting. I would love to get to know you a little better on a proper date. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange something”.

That’s all you need to do.

Mc_Dickles · 2024-06-06T04:29:30+00:00

The more excuses you try and find for yourself, the less likely you simple won't do it. This post is just gonna fuck your mental up. Go meet people however you can. Does that mean approach everybody?? No. But when you see an opportunity, just go for it.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-06T13:01:42+00:00

My checklists to get kiss closes and phone numbers in cold approaches during the day

1 - Opener and setting the playful flirty tone right away. Wanna establish myself as a flirt right away to avoid the small talk and NPC vibe.

2 - Accidental physical touch to break the touch barrier organically.

3 - Switch from impersonal to personal topics of conversation where i get her to talk about herself so she can show the type of person she is and we also can build a solid connection

4 - Make sure that we are isolated to set the stage for flirting without “activating” her defences (slut factor)

5 - Express what i find different about her to justify in a solid way my romantic/sexual interest in the next step. (Getting her to believe she is not just another girl of the countless that i might hit on)

6 - Show/express sexual interest by flirting sexually to create sexual tension and avoid being friendzoned.

7 - Intentional physical touch to test the waters about whether she is ready to be kissed and reinforce the flirtation

8 - Kiss close | Nothing sexual just to reinforced that something romantic happened, and that she is loving a fantasy

9 - Phone close | Suggesting a date idea and if she agrees, then take her number

10 - Consolidate after phone close by talking 2 minutes more fantasising out loud about the upcoming date with her and leave.

11 - First text | An inside joke about the encounter to remind her of the emotional mood she was in before i left.

Ideal time for the approach: 15 minutes

Ideal place to approach: Train trip, public parks/beach

Hope it helps, and if it doesn’t skip. This is what works for me.

PS: I can do 2 hour zoom coaching session explaining each step by step with examples, with a money back guarantee for the first hour of coaching if you are not satisfied with the session im that first hour. DM me if interested.

Title	What are the dos and don’ts of daygame/ Cold Approach and is it acceptable in today’s society?
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Date	June 6, 2024 2:35 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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