I go to a uni that’s nearby my house I sometimes go there to buy lunch and use the internet, so I met this girl in a library she at first glance she seemed very flashy and interesting. I couldn’t tell if she was staring at me but i had this really weird feeling that i felt her presence even though she’s complete stranger, that day I didn’t say anything and move on. Next day I went to the library again because I literally didn’t had internet at that time, so I saw her again being in the same place same time by herself probably doing homework or minding her own business. Next day I went by again she was at the same place same time again, and now I started noticing a pattern since she sat all the way to the other side of the end of the room I sat at the middle of the room, and I started looking for signs. My idea was when she walked out and leave she gets to pass-by me, she would turn her head to the right giving a quick stare at me, and she did exactly just that so I took that as a sign. ✅ So now i wanted to be a little more careful of how I want to approach this.

My plan was to get this girl’s number and get know her. i don’t want to be one of those idiots on social media “ohh saw you back there and I thought you was pretty cute can I get number” why would you ask a complete stranger for their number that doesn’t even make sense theirs need to be some form of authenticity and connection first to get to know someone. What I did since I had a job ob coming up around that same time. I did various psychological tricks and questions to truly know her interest. So the way approach it I want to the library dressed all black like came from a job meeting, with the intentions of printing legal documents for work even though I didn’t need them, i knew something as light hearted as this could break the ice and i could come off as relatable and she would have a sense of connection because she’s helping me. When I came to the library she was there same place same time again, at this point the signs were kinda obvious at point. So I try to print a document from the university ( I go to that university a couple times so I already knew to print documents that you have you either have to be a student or have to ask at front desk to send them the email) i obviously acted like i didn’t knew, i asked the girl how can i print out my document it’s for work ( the way it can play out, if she responds saying that you have ask front desk it means she’s not interested but if she says that can print it using her student’s account she’s interested) so she said can print it on her account i took that as another sign. ✅ She help me out and she went through her account and payed documents with her funds, another sign. ✅ Since the ice broken we started conversating for an hour and i was just being myself and being nonjudgmental we got to know each other. The funny part is she was so awkward cuz she was literally laughing and smiling anything i was saying. Then she had to go, and it kinda threw me off because why didn’t she asked for my number or take any action I really didn’t get it she kinda let me hanging, I asked her when can I see her again she said next week so I met up with her and her energy completely switched and she seemed uninterested I really really don’t get it, I asked if she wanna make plans to go out and was making excuses, it kinda stunned me though.