Just did some night game at a club with a friend in manila. Ladies night and we bought a table. Approached about 15-20 women.

Mostly a younger crowd, about 18-22, nearly all filipinos. My friend was pushing me to approach, and so I started when everyone was still stone cold sober.

My first around 10 approaches went terrible. I was approaching girls in the 5-8 range the whole night, while I'm late 20s and a 4/10 fatty. Some of girls were being really dismissive. Some of them I asked their names, and they just looked at me and didn't say shit even if I asked more than once. If I tried to lean in and talk into their ear cuz the music was loud, two of them backed away like I had leprosy. I'd say about 7 of them politely rejected me though.

I was feeling like total shit at this point. So I sat down and sulked for like 30 mins while my friend was trying to cheer me up.

After a bit I shook it off and continued. I felt like I had nothing to lose, and approached literally the hottest girl in the bar, a solid 8. She was actually being quite receptive. Engaging in convo, letting me talk into her ear, shake her hand etc. I asked her if her and her friend wanted to sit with me and my friend and come drink with us but she gave an excuse and politely declined though took my instagram.

By this time my friend had gotten a girl and her friend to come meet us from a dating app. They sat with us for a bit. The girl who sat with me was 22 year old 5/10. She actually seemed quite into me. She was making heavy eye contact and let me put my arm around her and feel up her thighs. Though they ended up leaving because my friend was belligerent drunk at this point, and made the other girl want to leave. The girl I was with initiated giving me her Facebook, and said "we are going to leave because my friend feels uncomfortable, but really, message me".

After this I approached a gay guy who was with all female friends, and asked him which one I can dance with. He actually obliged and handed a girl off to me. She danced with me for a bit, and I had my hands on her hips. Though she backed off after about 30 seconds.

After this I approached a few more girls, some polite rejection, some instagram closes. One of the girls seemed genuinelinterested though and danced with me for a while. 23 year old 5/10 facially but had a very hot body. She told me to message her, and I did, and she already replied back.

I guess also when I was walking around, my friend told one of the waitresses I was into her and asked if he can get her number to give to me. She said yes and gave it to him.

Also, there was a group of filipino guys at a table, I was dancing near them, and they invited me to have some of their beer and food. Was really cool of them and made me feel welcome.

Anyways, I rate the overall experience as good. This was mainly to help break my approach anxiety, and I don't care about the outcomes at all. I have very little approach experience so I want to get better. While I was around, I literally didn't see any other guys approaching at all. So I'm proud of myself for doing the extremely uncomfortable thing and trying to improve myself. I have to say though, it still feels extremely hurtful and demotivating, the girls who treat you like you're shit under their shoe.

General gameplan was, short introduction try and dance/ask them if they want to come to the table and drink more. How can I improve? What do I do when girls are giving you the coldest of shoulders? A lot girls would give me eye contact or look at me I was at the table or out dancing, but still a lot of them were not being receptive to an approach.