humor, yes or no for pick up?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-06-30T07:32:46+00:00

Vince Kelvin? Don't look up to that guy, he's a creepy weirdo. Record for most make-outs is lame as fuck and just something he made up. There is no-one counting such "records" and this is not something to be proud of. Sticking your tongue down hundreds of women is just a guaranteed way to get sick.

Humor doesn't get you laid. Escalation gets you laid.

But humor is an attractive quality, so it will make everything easier.

There is a caveat. A person that's actually funny is seen as more attractive. A person constantly trying to be funny and looking for validation and being a "dancing monkey" type will not be seen as attractive. Be funny, but don't be the needy / try-hard comedian. Be funny to entertain yourself mostly.

Faide513 · 2024-06-30T06:58:08+00:00

Yes to humor. But not mean humor. If you start teasing and it goes mean, that's a nope from me.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-30T10:12:19+00:00

Obviously yes. Seduction pick up is all about making woman feel favourable emotional states, which humour does very well.

Humor has the ability to break her defenses, reduce inflated egos without making the woman feel bad, get her to relax and become more receptive to your escalations, build trust, overcome her tests, and make her feel good. It also helps you project high value, lead and dominate groups of people and social situations, and make people instantly like you and want to spend more time with you.

That doesn’t mean that you now become a clown, which is when you confuse wit and charm with making a fool of yourself and trying too hard to force people to smile, or relying solely on jokes and antics losing sight of genuine personal connection.

Your wit should enhance your charisma, ensuring it builds rapport but not be so overdone that it distracts completely from meaningful interactions and genuine connection.

Humour is an ingredient, sort of like sugar. But too much sugar can ruin any dessert, whereas lack of sugar makes the dessert bland and unappealing.

Imaginary-Analyst123 · 2024-07-01T20:50:50+00:00

yes, but only if its genuinely who you are

epimpstyle · 2024-06-30T10:59:25+00:00

Think of humor as part of a chain: humor - witty/playful - kino escalation - .... and so on.....

If you remove the humor, it will be very hard to be a witty/playful person, and if you are not playful, it is super hard to make a kino escalation. Everything is connected like a chain.

If you want a girl to like you on some level, being humorous is a starting point, but as I said, it is not enough because without escalation, the girl will see you as a funny guy she likes to hang out with, but nothing more.

Do not exaggerate being funny, not every sentence must be something to laugh about, a maximum of two jokes in five minutes is enough, otherwise is too much.

roll_20_natty · 2024-06-30T10:46:29+00:00

Humor, similar to video games, fall under the broader category of "play". You have to get in the mindset of "play" similar to what you did as a kid. It's fun. Who doesn't enjoy fun?

PublicActivity6275 · 2024-09-12T13:49:33+00:00

Vince Kelvin is VERY BAD. He used to film and photograph (young) women secretly then post everything online (without anyone’s permission) with a sexual story about the woman that was always fake. He pays for hair extensions just to fill out his Mohawk. You’ll never see him trying his b.s. with anyone close his age. Vince used to live in a rented mansion in Sunset Plaza called Project Hollywood. The house was FILLED with hidden cameras. Plus, his students would help him trick girls into getting into bad situations and then would jump out from a wall or something to film the girl doing something that would help promote Vince as a PUA. They had so many people living there once, the city forced them all to move out. One if the reasons they had 30 people living there is because none of them could afford it. When I knew Vince, he was always broke. I saw Vince entice a girl to come over once by telling her he would take her shopping. Lie. As soon as she got in the door, Vince kissed her and someone photographed it. Vince used the photo as a thumbnail for a video called “SLUTS OF AMERICA.” LOOK AT VINCE’S OLDER VIDEOS to get a glimpse of who he really is.

mkkpt · 2024-06-30T09:55:50+00:00

Humour is another form of expression. It can be used in many ways and convey a variety of emotions - as a crutch, a shield, a manoeuvre, flirty, silly, hateful. It's all about the context and how you use it. Don't be trapped into expressing yourself only one way. Don't be afraid to be in the moment and be vulnerable with someone.

I'd encourage you to express yourself fully. If you like jokes, makes some jokes. As long as you're coming from a positive, mentally healthy, constructive frame of mind, if a funny joke pops into your head, go with it.

The goal is to find someone who "vibes" with your style of expression and the underlying person that you are.

Be careful about subscribing too much to personality's / gurus in this space. They have a financial interest in marketing their systems. Test it out yourself, take what works and incorporate into your own unique self-expression.

Available_Bass9725 · 2024-06-30T11:07:51+00:00

no. you're not a stand up comedian.

Title	humor, yes or no for pick up?
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Date	June 30, 2024 5:42 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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