Do you ever meet a girl but you know you can’t afford her lifestyle so you just never shoot your shot?

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Casanova-Quinn · 2024-07-05T06:49:11+00:00

Never reject yourself for anything, let her decide. She might not care about your money, or even like being a sugar mommy lol. You never know, shoot your shot.

ncsakira · 2024-07-05T06:40:05+00:00

Even I can afford her lifestyle I never shot my shot... Lol

alexbananas · 2024-07-05T09:36:30+00:00

I was at a party in LA, I was visiting some friends that live there and we all went out to a party event. My celebrity crush was there, and I kid you not we locked eyes at least 3 times.

There wasnt that many people, maybe like 80 and she was always surrounded by her girlfriends but to this day I still regret that I auto-rejected myself. Even if you know she’s on a whole different lifestyle man you gotta shoot your shot

nothing32768 · 2024-07-05T07:22:12+00:00

it's not important unless she decides it's important. feelings are always more important than money. well, not always :) but romance .. let's just say romance has a way ;)

ZairNotFair · 2024-07-05T06:19:05+00:00

Yeah a girl I took out on dates last summer. On the first date, she told me that her hobby is shopping. She goes to the mall every weekend and just shops around until her hands are full.I asked how can she afford it since we're both broke college students working part time. She tells me she's maxxed out all her cards and running on overdraft. This wasn't the worst. When I told her "You probably won't get a loan for anything in the future. Your credit is through the floor." She replies with "Who cares?"

I'm 100% sure she was gonna ask me to sponsor her madness if we got together. Then after the 2nd date she texts me that she has a bf but will break up with him as soon as we get together. I said "I feel bad for him. Leave him but not for me" and then blocked her.

Simple-Contact2507 · 2024-07-05T08:05:10+00:00

Lots of them.

A gal I was seeing just for a month, call me crying because she needs 3000/- dollars urgently because of some goofup in her work.

Since then maintain my distance from her and near flirt with her.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-07-05T07:35:24+00:00

Like why do I care?

She has free will. I’m just giving her the chance to decide. You can’t force shit on people.(as much as it might seem that way)

kitaeks47demons · 2024-07-05T08:30:13+00:00

There’s no such thing as leagues You miss a 100% of the shots not taken

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-05T11:48:06+00:00

I'm my experience it's all in which kind of shot I'm shooting.

The girls with the more luxurious lifestyles tended to not expect me to maintain their lifestyle ONLY IF I was just a boytoy. They already got money so I provided the dick.

It goes the other way as well. If I showed desire for commitment their expectations would instantly skyrocket to justify disqualifying me.

Expectation for resources are placed on guys that are bf material.

The guys these girls sleep with are different than the guys they date.

A good example was when I was seeing a pediatric dietitian that made great money, multiple cars, summer home on the cape etc...she had her own money on top of family money.

...one night she shows up at 11:30pm dressed up with maximum effort put into her appearance and i asked her "why such overkill for Netflix?"

She told me she just had a date with a guy, and she actually tells me he was a nice guy, another doctor, a lot going for him, paid for everything....she even said she plans to see him again but ended the night early so she doesn't appear to be easy.

...Yet right after that date she sleeps over at my place. I have never taken that girl on an intimate date.

The lesson is that the same guys that the well off girls expect resources from are the ones that they make wait, the guys they are actually sleeping with don't have to do too much.

Small_Introduction94 · 2024-07-05T06:50:18+00:00

Nope, I'm not taking care of anyone who can't take care of themselves, not doing that again.

KumaFGC · 2024-07-05T08:16:08+00:00

Chase a check. Never chase a bitch.

Title	Do you ever meet a girl but you know you can’t afford her lifestyle so you just never shoot your shot?
Author	valterilian
Upvotes	23
Comments	17
Date	July 5, 2024 5:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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