How to Stop Feeling Lonely?

AlphaAsFAQ · 2015-08-13T07:59:13+00:00

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sumethreuaweiei · 2015-08-13T02:12:47+00:00

Meetup.com or other local interest groups. Don't even worry if you can't find anything you're that interested in. Just go to get out and talk to someone. But don't go and be needy. See if you can offer some sort of value to them, too.

If all else fails for now, get a professional massage. You'll get a bunch of oxytocin released and feel better.

bl33dingr3d · 2015-08-13T04:39:37+00:00

No quick fix for an antisocial lifestyle. Force yourself to socialize. Focus on your own personal development. Get a job that requires a lot of interaction...you'll find you'll adapt to new environments and learn how to be comfortable in your own skin.

machimus · 2015-08-13T06:54:13+00:00

Inb4 the inevitable escort post.

First off, being lonely is normal. You're human and it's a human feeling. Second, start taking some of the responsibility for being lonely. There's so much you can do to get human interaction. You never said how old you are, but join clubs, go out places, make small talk, make new friends maybe. Not much point in complaining if you're shutting yourself in your room all the time.

krustytheclown2 · 2015-08-13T07:29:00+00:00

I need a fix, and I need it fast.

Counteracting social ineptitude will take time so hold your horses. Follow the advice of the posters here. Just realize that you are going to strike out, more so with the girls than the guys. Just see everything as a learning experience and move on.

Title	How to Stop Feeling Lonely?
Author	sumethreuaweiei
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	August 13, 2015 2:03 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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