So I have a few questions about optimization of what occurs after closing a number.

A: Text her and when ?

  1. That night with something like Nice to meet you X / did you get home safe etc

  2. Wait 2/3 days (traditional)

  3. Wait a week

B:After the initial text

  1. Do you never text her until she texts you again ?

  2. Do you text with an opener and try to set up a time to meet up

  3. Other thoughts on the initial text ?

C: How often to text her before meeting up

  1. I know you don't build comfort through texting the girl 50x a day but whats a baseline # of texts I should be sending in our initial conversation?
  • What types of information should I reveal/not reveal or should I not reveal any personal info and make cf answers to all her questions.
  • If she texts me before the meetup an starts convo should I go with it for a few texts than stop responding to her and leave her hanging ? (optimal play in this scenario?)
  1. What point do I bring up sexual banter?
  • in the initial number closing?
  • the initial text convo ?
  1. Calling the girl names like geek/sexy via text does this indicate sexual interest/or neediness ? I've seen various posts arguing that calling a girl sexy is like telling a rich man he's rich and they will automatically peg you for a needy beta. I've also seen posts say it shows them your intent to sleep with them.

D: Girls flaking in texts

  1. girls who respond to the initial text/texts then stop replying mid convo.
  • Is this game for them? (i.e. The Rules book) Are they trying to see how hard you are willing to work for them ? (If they think you are a player etc)

  1. I know to not respond with anything like a second text or upset or any other beta trait. Do you just wait a few days and text again ? Or do you never text again until they do ? I've seen on chase's blog he gives them 3 chances waiting a few days/a week after they stop a text.

  2. Do certain type of girls do this to weed out if you want to just use them for sex ? Or to try to play hard to get ?

  3. If the girl is playing hard to get is texting her more a bad idea? Or do you hold the line and show very little interest.

Thank you for taking the time to respond