"I would like to settle down with a guy like you"

abdada · 2015-08-13T20:26:29+00:00

Assuming you've had sex with her?

If so, comfort test.

If not, shit test.

Whisper · 2015-08-13T22:12:17+00:00

The ultimate girl fantasy isn't the dual track mating strategy with alpha playmates and a beta provider.

It's merging those two tracks into the alpha provider. "50 Shades of Grey" represents a snapshot of this, a sexy billionaire who can satisfy not only her material needs, but her desire for passion, drama, and sexual excitement.

AFBB simply materializes because girls cannot find the alpha provider. Your average alpha doesn't have to bankroll girls, and your average man who is able to bankroll girls is focused on his career, not on traveling the world and perfecting his sex-pack abs.

If a girl expresses urges to lock you down, it can mean one of several things. She might see you as a nice safe beta provider to jump off the cock train with. Or she might see you as the best man she could ever possibly get, and she wants to hold on rather than trying to trade up.

In order to tell which one she sees you as, you have to use context clues to determine if she's mentally putting you in the "alpha" category or the "beta" category.

Here's a few things to look at.

Alphas get sex soon after meeting. Betas get sex eventually.
Alphas get sex when they want it. Betas get sex when she wants it.
Alphas get kinky sex. Betas get vanilla sex.
Women expect monogamy from betas. Women are willing to share alphas.
Women do what alphas tell them. Women tell betas what to do.
Women get briefly furious at alphas, then apologize. Women are constantly slightly annoyed with betas, and expect them to apologize.
Women demand expensive gestures from betas. Women are surprised and boundlessly grateful for the smallest gesture from alphas.
Beta chase women. Women chase alphas.

You get the idea.

If walk you up to her, wordlessly open your fly, and push her head down, and she goes to work, then mentions an LTR while licking up the last of your semen, she's saying "That's it, I'm done. I don't think I could possibly trade up. You're the best I'm ever going to get. Please stay."

If she says the same thing in the fancy restaurant after you just bought her an expensive meal, and you're hoping you might get to second base tonight, she's saying "You are controllable and appear to have a decent amount of cash, and the ability to bolster my ego. Hang around until ~~I'm done fucking Chad~~ Chad is done fucking me, and I'll let you buy me more things."

FrameWalker · 2015-08-13T20:28:57+00:00

Could be any flavor of girl game. She could be testing the water for commitment (girls do gave a fantasy of getting an alpha to commit). Could be a shit test where she baits you into asking her to be your gf and she laughs at you.

If you're getting sex don't worry about it. Make sure you're passing shit tests, and following the 2/3 golden rule

Title	"I would like to settle down with a guy like you"
Author	SomeMardyBum
Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	August 13, 2015 8:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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