So i was out with a girl i met online, the date was kinda weird and i only had the feeling of her opening up after 80% of the date was over, when i was talking more about myself (before she mostly talked and i asked her about her life n storys). Cause we did talk but it was a rather dry convo and while she did talk alot about herself it was kinda.... well not "date-ish topics" i felt like i got the know her outter self, not her inner one if that makes sense?

So after a while i was thinking that she might have a easier time opening up if we talk about some deeper topics, i bluntly said smth along the lines of "So are you ready for the deep topics :)?" Usually the girls i've been with were all excited to talk about deeper topics but she actually denied my offer. It was really strange to me so i asked her why and she said:

"Well once i was doing that with someone and then they did stuff i didn't want".

That sentence fell before i felt that she was opening up a little, because of that line i also refrained from any body contact throughout the date.

Now here's where it get's tricky. For me it didn't really click on an emotional level, sure she is cute but for a relationship we are just too different, so the only thing i see is smth casual. But like i said there was no body contact yet so that is kinda bad for the path i'm trying to go down.

I asked her after our 1st date if/how she liked it and she said "it was really nice :)" Which came as a surprise to me but i'm also not the best at reading women so i might have been off, as i expected her to not really be into me.

But since shes down, i would like to meet her again, go for a hug when we meet, be a little touchy throughout the date and then make it escalate into a kiss at the end, no sex tho, i'd like to wait for the 3rd/4th date for that, if those were to happen.

So my question is, since she said some guy i guess probably was really pushy after doing some deep talk, do u think it would be appropriate to try and go for a kiss once i feel like the mood is right?

Or should i take that sentence as a "pls don't force yourself onto me suddenly". I REALLY dislike asking if its fine to kiss, imo it ruins the mood, but what do you guys think? Is it even appropriate to go from no body contact first date, to trying to get some body contact and a kiss/make out session for a second date (ofc only if i feel like she is open to it)?

Thanks alot for reading and for ur help :)!