I've often encountered situations where women tend to dismiss or downplay male issues, often steering the conversation to serve their narrative. Here’s how these discussions typically unfold:

  1. False Accusations: Whenever false accusations against men are discussed, women often dismiss the concerns by saying, "What about all the unreported cases of real abuse?" If a man is proven innocent, they might retort, "He must have done something to deserve it," or suggest, "The woman probably changed her testimony because of pressure or intimidation." They might also argue, "She didn't have enough evidence, but that doesn't mean she was lying," and insist, "Rape victims are ostracized; no woman would lie about something like that."

  2. Domestic Violence: When the topic of male victims of domestic violence comes up, women often downplay it by saying, "What about the thousands of women killed by men every day?" or, "Men are usually the abusers." They might add, "He probably provoked her," or excuse the woman’s actions by saying, "She wouldn’t have reacted like that if he had been nicer." Some even suggest, "He must have started the abuse," and emphasize, "We need to hear both sides of the story."

  3. Male Suicide: Discussing male suicide often leads to women responding with, "Well, who created the system in the first place?" or, "Men are just irresponsible and don’t care about their families." Some even go as far as saying, "Men are finally getting a taste of their own medicine."

  4. Alimony: In conversations about alimony, women frequently defend the current system by saying, "The system is fair; you wanted a housewife, so now you have to pay for it." They argue, "She gave her blood and sweat to the household; she deserves half," and insist, "She needs compensation for all the unpaid labor she did." They also claim, "It's her right, and no one can take that away from her," adding, "She bore your child and gave it your name," and, "She can't move on because of the trauma you caused." Some even argue, "Now no one will date her; that's why she needs support."

  5. Gender-Neutral Laws: When gender-neutral laws are proposed, women often counter with, "But what about the misogynistic and patriarchal society we live in?" They argue, "Laws are made according to society’s needs, and women are more vulnerable, so we need gender-biased laws." They emphasize, "Women are killed by men every day; we can’t risk women’s security just because of a few cases," and assert, "Just because some women lie doesn’t mean we should change the laws." They also express concern that, "Men will start falsely accusing women," and argue, "Crimes against women are increasing; we need to focus more on protecting them," while insisting, "The majority of cases still involve women, so we can’t take away their rights."

  6. Paternity Fraud: When paternity fraud is mentioned, women often respond with, "If you don't trust her, why did you marry her?" or, "We can't jeopardize the child’s future over this." They might express concerns like, "You could end up abusing the child," and question, "Where would the mother and child go?" Some women argue, "It doesn’t matter who the biological father is; it’s still your responsibility," and suggest, "We need to end the stigma around raising another man's child."

  7. Tough Jobs: When I mentioned that if women want equality, they should also take on tough jobs like working on oil rigs or fighting in wars, the response was, "Women don’t have the physical strength for those jobs." When I pointed out that women could still do them, they shot back with, "Well, men are free to give birth if they want to." There's always an excuse, and they often say, "There are fewer women in the workforce, which is why we need reservations and quotas," or, "Women can give birth, so they should focus on those jobs."

And if you win the argument, their final defense is, "Women have been oppressed for thousands of years; why can't we promote them for thousands more?" or they blame inequality on a society that benefits men.you know how they play victim card

I would love to discuss each and every point with details in the comments.

Thank you