Throwaway cuz this is a bit embarrassing.

I recently moved into a big city college (around 40,000 students) and holy smokes the girls here are hot. The girls at my high school cant even begin to compare. I get nervous by just maintaining eye contact with them.

I never actually cold approached women in high school, most of the time it just so happened that we were usually in the same classes together and the class was the basis I used for the conversation. From there I would draw the conversation out to other topics. It never really worked and I never had a relationship, but this is pretty much the only way I knew how to hold a conversation with a stranger.

Right now it’s day 3 of move in, and classes just started. We have a tradition here where all the freshmen jump in a fountain at night. I was there at the fountain and I saw some wild stuff going on. People were groping each other etc. So going off this I assume that people are fucking each other already, which just seems crazy to me.

How exactly does someone just cold approach a girl and get to fucking in like 3 days. Heck how do they do it in the same day?

At this school the odds are little bit in my favor since there is MUCH more women than men here, but at the same time I am terrified because of all of the women look so perfect and yet I feel so flawed and out of place.

The majority of the people here are white, and I am indian, my acne has flared up reallly bad recently, but I do workout and have an above average build. Not as big as the actual athletes but bigger than the average man here. I havent really figured out how to dress up right or a good hairstyle, but I don’t want to wait to fix that stuff and miss out on this opportunity right infront of me.