Any of you guys have stories of friends you've lost on the journey to becoming Red Pill Realized?

B00TYMASTER · 2015-08-21T01:39:57+00:00

Lost a lot of friends my first year of college because I was an "asshole" and my entire dorm floor were a bunch of SJW white knights. One RP aware guy on the floor I ended up befriending and another guy on a different floor who was beta af. Couldn't talk to girls, was an introvert, made excuses, was a virgin, had white knight ideology. Me and my red pill buddy hyped up this other buddy about the injustices we as men often face and then introduced him to TRP. Unfortunately, he could only grasp on to 2 concepts/terms of the entire RP: Alpha and Beta. Everything was either Alpha or Beta or Beta Bucks. He immediately began referring to everyone else as a beta and himself as an alpha and got really immature while never attempted to better himself or learn anything TRP preaches. He ended up mocking TRP and his immaturity led to the demise of a good friendship. It's a shame but people come and go.

[deleted] · 2015-08-21T02:57:02+00:00

I've had the same circle of friends for ~4 years, and a best friend (in that same circle) of nearly 15 years. After I swallowed TRP, I've been wanting to go out, and not spend the majority of my time online. But, it seems all my friends want to do is play League of Legends, WoW, or some other MMO. It saddens me to realize that we'll only continue to grow apart. We all still enjoy eachother's company, but, I'll never be that close to them again.

[deleted] · 2015-08-21T22:59:48+00:00

I didn't "lose" any friends. But I nexted a fuckin ton of them.

thor_away92 · 2015-08-21T03:09:29+00:00

Bens not a very loyal friend, you could do without him. My newfound spine weeded out a lot of people.

People wanna see you do good, never better.

rurpe · 2015-08-21T01:26:22+00:00

People come and go. Why waste time talking about people who don't care about you?

Rorta · 2015-08-21T10:36:55+00:00

No stories to share as such but I have weeded out and dropped contact with a lot of people in the past 18 months. I didn't need the stress or the misery they caused me and I put 100% of my efforts in terms of friendships into the people that actually provide me with happiness, rather than the friendships that ultimately came down to nothing more than exchanging value between two people.

Gawernator · 2015-08-21T11:00:20+00:00

Haven't really lost any friends exactly, must some fade away with time and distance. Since a lot of my friends were made through the military, the majority of guys I would even hang out with were alpha A type personality or at least strong betas. I would have considered myself beta for sure until about a year ago, only since turning 21 did things REALLY start to change in my path.

ChrisBenRoy · 2015-08-21T14:16:17+00:00

I wouldn't say I've lost him as a friend, but I went from almost best buddies w/ my buddy Mike to only chatting on occasion.

I met Mike at work, we got a long well, laughed at the same shit, typical stuff. Started lifting together, he helped me move a couple of times, we hung out at work all the time. During this time he had a g/f he lived with for awhile but was somewhat red pill in how he treated that relationship, he did whatever the fuck he wanted. He flirted with other girls, snapchatted other girls, text, etc...never cheated on her, but definitely played the field and kept options open.

Eventually another girl at work started that he became infatuated with he began talk to her at work and it escalated to hanging out w/ her outside of work, he even invited both her and his g/f at the time to dinner with me and a girl I was fucking at the time. Eventually he left his old g/f for the girl he's with now, and is now pretty blue pill.

Before he was always at work early, never late, never used his PTO or vacation time. Now he's almost always late, barely has any time left because he has to use it when she wants to or to cover his ass when he's late because she is always late. He no longer has social media accounts because "it started fights" because he'd talk to other girls (who were merely longtime friend, but they were girls.) He doesn't lift as much anymore.

The final straw for me was we made plans 3 days in advance to go to a release party for a beer at a local brewery. I text him day of to see what he wants to do about riding there and he says he can't go because "his girlfriend had to watch her little brother (13) because her parents were sick (they were still home) and he was going with her". I never went out of my way to hang out w/ him again. I'll chat here and there with him and we are still friends but his entire lift is her now.

Also, he knocked her up, so he's now forever lost.

dabrah1 · 2015-08-21T14:43:12+00:00

I used to be part of a group of guys when I was in college. After I started getting IOI's from girls, and hanging out with guys who were more fun to be around, they completely dropped me. Stopped hitting me up, wouldn't even talk to me if I saw them. Looking back they were all, and still are, beta as fuck, and I subconsciously drifted away from them on purpose. Its just how things go sometimes.

Title	Any of you guys have stories of friends you've lost on the journey to becoming Red Pill Realized?
Author	throwthemhoes
Upvotes	17
Comments	10
Date	August 21, 2015 12:31 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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