How to correctly escalate on a girl that clearly likes me but is distant?

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-08-15T21:53:40+00:00

Dude, honestly you sound like your just this girls work wife. Don’t try to fuck someone in a relationship that you work with, it’s not worth it and there’s plenty of other girls out there

Chickenbeans__ · 2024-08-15T20:53:07+00:00

Or…or.

You could not fuck some dudes girlfriend? There are plenty of women out there

DaygameCode · 2024-08-15T21:05:51+00:00

You have to flirt sexually, invade her personal space a bit, dance with her maybe a little bit turn her around or fun, tell her how hard it is for you nto to kiss her right now, that you are trying to resist, but when she looks at you like that it’s almost impossible, and that if she doesn’t move away now you are just going to do it. If she doesn’t move, stands there without saying anything go for it in no more than 3 seconds. The more you hesitate to take the move the more likely she is to kill the moment, so you cannot wait too much for her approval to go for a kiss. Lack of saying no is an invitation in itself to go for it.

czfreak · 2024-08-15T23:52:14+00:00

If yall are sitting next to each other just put her hand on your dick. Its worked for me everytime. The times it didnt work immediately they laugh about and it always escalates soon after

McPigg · 2024-08-16T01:05:13+00:00

Ehm - how is she distant? Seems pretty receptive to me? Aside from that being a bad idea, cuz the boyfriend actually knows where to find you when he finds out... you already got the touchung and flirting in place, your at her place (hopefully alone) so tension is in the air.

Now its about making it lock in, where you both openly show and admit this mutual attraction, from there its smooth sailing. The classic move for that is a kiss, but you can do that a little more sneaky and low brow by just high fiving or catching a gesture of hers, and then if she doesnt pull away her hand, inspecting and playing it. That should flow into a little finger caressing motion.

If she reciprocates that, that is a very intimate lover-type moment, on the same level as a kiss, but so much less of a big leap. So if you get mutual handplay, its safe to kiss her, if not, its way less of a big deal to try for mutual handplay then if you straigjt up tried to kiss her, especially if god forbid you totally misread some flirty playfullness for interest, and she tells her boyfriend afterwards.

The best thing to do after the succesful hand magic moment, when you both know and (nonverbally) admittet you like each other, is to keep the tension up before the kiss. You do that by anticipation. Smell her and get close to her neck, put your hand on her upper thigh but remove it after a few seconds, whisper sth in her ear so its like your soo close to kissing, but not doing it yet (before you give in and either just straight up go into wild mutual makeout & probably fucking, or pullback first and build more tension)

DrakoTheAlmighty · 2024-08-15T22:06:33+00:00

Sounds like shes got you whipped. Stop giving her attention and watch the roles flip. She’ll go crazy 🗿

ItchyRope498 · 2024-08-15T21:10:06+00:00

idk that to me would be like giving her the best of both worlds which she don't deserve it's up to you chances are she'll dump him just to smash you once you give that cold shoulder with the reasons why too see you want her in your world not hers if you get what i'm saying

VrilHunter · 2024-08-15T22:26:35+00:00

Getting your dick tattooed is the best way for you to get some.

VrilHunter · 2024-08-15T22:29:35+00:00

She does that with you because she knows she has you around her finger.

Just apply what she's doing back on her. It will drive her crazy.

Title	How to correctly escalate on a girl that clearly likes me but is distant?
Author	Distinct-Action6838
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Comments	11
Date	August 15, 2024 8:07 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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