This girl I talked to a couple years ago ended up stalking me on social media earlier this year.

Context:

We go to the same uni and ended up talking for 2-3 months. We met, we would hang out and it was a good time, but she was one of my “special cases”. I sniffed that out kind of early, but I was having so much fun at school that I talked to her anyways.

Tbh, I was reluctant to make moves. Again, she is a very attractive girl and I did like her, but when we’d hang out she’d flirt but it’s like my body rejected her. I was avoidant when it came to intimacy with her, which made her crave me more. She’d be in my bed, make moves, but my body would freeze up. I think that stemmed from two previous experiences in that same year with girls who took advantage of me.

One time she asked me if I was a virgin and I said “no”. I’m not a virgin. I’ve had sex with 12 different people. At that point in time, it was probably around 9. The thing about me is, I feel like I’ve had sex with more people than I’ve talked to… if that makes sense. At this point in my life, I hadnt really talked to girls, I’d sleep with them for some time. So when I was talking to this girl, it was kind of new to me.

Anyways, one night we were on campus and we ended up making out. We were at a kickback and she texted me signaling that she wanted to get with me. She definitely wanted to have sex, but I didn’t take things too far so I stopped making out with her because my body was actually rejecting her. And she’s actually really hot. But my intuition told me that she was a maniputive or narcissistic

She ended up friend zoning me a day later.

The weird part about this “special case” is that this girl and I are always around each other. We joined the same club at school. We are on the board together. So we can’t avoid each other.

Another thing to mention about this “special case” is that after she friendZoned me, she would use me and get the benefit of being friends with me due to us being in proximity via friends too. So I was right about her being manipulative.

I was also stuck in a situation where my left had taken a complete left turn. I had suffered a complete tragedy in my personal life so I was living a double life trying to balance my life at uni and outside of it. Meanwhile, this girl decides to play in my face as my mask of sanity began to fade. My personal life started to affect me at school and she tried to take advantage of it.

I blocked her number. Then she got a hold of me (can’t avoid her at uni.. at all) so I unblocked it. She ends up ghosting me. We cut all contact. I didn’t care tbh I was right about her in the first place and she ended up having sex with some other guy while trying to play in my face. Before she did that, I had sex with like 2 other girls behind her back. Lmao

We didn’t see each other for almost a year. I return to my uni a year after we cut all contact and she ends up stalking me off a burner account online. I knew it was her immediately. Mind you, when I would see her in person we would always ignore each other. I removed her off my account about a month later lol. I dont really post on social anyways so it’s not like I really gaf.

Now it’s a new school year and I have to see her again. This girl has an obsession with me and I want to just confront her for the stalking and have a conversation because it’s just so weird lmaooo

This would be different if this was some random girl, but no… I see her at uni

What should I do? I don’t care for this girl, but we work together so I have to be civil but she also stalks me but at the same time doesn’t necessarily respect me and I don’t respect her and she lost so many points after I caught her.