Wow!! After reading the queens code and (halfway through) the secrets of fascinating womanhood I am so impressed.

Our relationship was pretty good already but this really just brought my understanding of how men operate and what motivates them!

This week so far my SO called me on his lunch (he never has done this) just to “hear my sweet voice”

The first time he’s really expressed on wanting to buy me a home. It was in a frustrated tone of like, ‘how am I going to do this for you’. But I consider that a huge win. I have asked him multiple times in the 4 years we’ve dated and I’ve never heard him actually express it like that.

I mentioned something sounded good for dinner and he immediately got up and made it for me after he had a long day at work. No hesitation at all and was so happy to do it for me

Consistent doting on me about how lucky he is and how beautiful I am.

Not to mention an hour long love making session that ended in me sobbing tears of joy I have for this man.

And that’s just to name a few! I was so critical in the past and it’s amazing how that just doesn’t work on men. It works perfectly on women 😂. I’m so excited to continue to uplift my man and love him. I am excited to see where this will go and the new heights we can reach together . I am even getting a different energy from colleagues and acquaintances.

It’s also really helped me show him how much I appreciate him. And how much easier everything is if I focus at the good.