Hi everyone, I am 31 years old. Ive been married for 8 years and 12 together overall. I have two boys, 3 and 5. Last 2 years of marriage had been a consistent hell. Wife became extremely unpredictable and treats me like shit. She blames me for everything and cannot take responsibility for her actions. I tried fighting on our relationship with therapy etc for months now, and it is just getting worse and worse. I know I am not perfect, but certain that I don't deserve this kind of treatment. I have a great job and career path. Been working really hard while trying to balance home. However, our relationship consistently drains all my energy and sense of stability.

I know for a fact that the separation is going to be very hard and need some support from you guys. I need someone to tell me that there's light after darkness.

Would life be good again? I am so afraid from this change, from harming my kids, from dating again. I crave to be happy and loved again. Thanks everyone, much appreciated.