I have been dating for a short while and I seem to attract woman that want to tell me about their ex. I listen to much which is part of my issue. How do you get a woman to stop talking about her ex? Went on a date tonight got the kiss; she said let’s get together tomorrow I get home and I get the following text.

Any advice I know you weren’t there but this seems to be a pattern I feel I am struggling in the emotional connection with woman. Any advice be appreciated.

“Hey I don't think I felt enough of a connection to build off of in only one day, I don't want to waste your time tomorrow.”

I replied take care.

She replied, Aw you were great really! Sometimes it just takes more time than others. Best of luck!

I didn’t reply to this; any direction appreciated.