Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence?

theasianplayboy · 2024-10-06T03:10:07+00:00

When you’re out at a bar or in a nightlife setting, try the Kickstarter opener. It’s as simple as holding up your drink and saying, “Cheers!” This works because it’s part of a well-known social ritual—people will automatically respond by clinking their drink with yours. This bypasses the typical mental block of “what do I say?” and gives you a simple entry into conversations without triggering a potential rejection right away.

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It’s packed with actionable steps you can take immediately that’s also designed specifically for Asian men like you.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-10-05T23:40:12+00:00

Get cold approaching out of your vocabulary because every single time you do that you are giving the woman the leverage automatically.

Seduction is sales. If the prospective customer reaches out to the salesman, the salesman has the leverage. If the salesman "cold calls" prospective customers, those prospects have the leverage.

Just have sex appeal and have a life and don't care about any outcomes and women will put themselves near you or go out of their way to interact with you.

HomelessMilkman · 2024-10-06T10:07:40+00:00

Stop thinking about yourself.

Stop thinking about how you'll come across, how to get what you want, how to make her like you, how you look, how to approach, wondering whether you're attractive enough, what your goals are, whether you're achieving your goals, etc.

You stop being 'self-conscious' when you relax, let go and just take action. The analysis, judgment, second-guessing, etc. does not help; it makes you 'weak', nervous, limited, restrained, it's like walking through tar.

I mean, 'Should I approach from back or front?'; you shouldn't have to think twice about this, she's not got eyes in the back of her head.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-10-06T08:35:26+00:00

Nothing simple. Self reflection on what your fears are is the only way forward.

Title	Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence?
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Date	October 5, 2024 11:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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