Not asking for personal advice, but using an example to illustrate the point. I was involved with the first woman who showed true desire towards me. Single mom with a traumatic childhood, respected me, submitted to me (and liked it), was loyal to me and would vocally adore and admire me. Intimacy was never lacking. I didn't commit to her because I didn't like the single mom situation, something always felt "off" because she couldn't be single (serial relationships). Eventually she realised it wasn't going to work with me and she went her own way (blocked me on everything and is with a new guy). She was the first woman I experienced this level of desire from and it was a real eye-opener. I always questioned whether I fucked up by letting her go (dying oneitis), but she was also quite chaotic and the way she ghosted at the end (accepting I wasn't committing) made me question whether it was real (potentially alpha widow situation?) or whether I was just the closest form of validation at the time when her marriage fell apart.

So the question is, do most women who have genuine desire for you and are clearly feminine in contrast with your masculinity, do they show it in similar ways? And when they're into you, they often adopt your values and perspectives, even when they're at odds with their own true views (i.e. if she's more sexually liberal and you're more conservative, she'll become more conservative while falling into your frame). Does that matter or do her "pre-you"/true values matter more?

I'm new to TRP and after having seen signs of success in the last situationship makes me want to learn from my mistakes and do better next time while also having realistic expectations from those of you who are more experienced.