So to make a long story short after 14 years I caught my wife having an affair i tried for 5 months of trying to make it work she walked out on me and the kids for the last time and I filed for divorce. It was finalized a week before Christmas last year. I still hold alot of resentment even though I try to hide it ( for the sake of the kids) a couple of weeks ago while I was working nights she come by to get her mail and she struck a nerve after telling me she wanted for her and her bf ( the ap) to universal, which after years of struggling financialy and always working so she could ba a stay at home mom (which is what she wanted to do when we got married). Maybe it's my pride but it bothered me because I missed another of first with my kids because of this.she told me during the discussion that it's her fault and she knows she screwed up but knows she has to live with the repercussions of what she did. She keeps re following me on social media no matter how many times I remove her. I'm not sure what to do from here. I'm trying to move on but it's really hard for me to be civil when all I want to do is scream at her and call her every name in the book.