Basically title. Decided to rush but work kept conflicting so I missed the very top house. Then when I went I went to one of the other good ones that are known as the "douchebags" but they are in the borderline of getting suspended and I would rather not risk pledging then losing the fraternity that soon.

So I rushed the number 2 or 3rd best house. Its great, awesome group of guys and crazy parties/tailgates..Problem is I just heard they are the nice guys fraternity. Heard they are sweethearts to sororities and very nice so they get friendzoned.. All is fun but I cant be in a fraternity that completely contradicts my view. Should I ride it out and see whats up with that or what? its too late to check out other places until spring