Hey AskTRP, lurker here with a question. I'm a 19 year old college student, and two things tend to happen to me on nights out with my friends, not extremely often but often enough for me and other people to notice a trend. I'm not sure how to interpret these, so I want to hear your opinions.

1. Random women try to get me to make out with their friends. Every now and then, whether in a club or bar or whatever, some woman will call me over or tap me on the shoulder and ask me to make out with her friend. The friend then proceeds to look really shocked, and try to convince me to make out with the girl that called me in the first place. If I'm in a good mood, I might talk for a short while but they never seem genuinely interested.

2: Guys come onto me I swear I've been come onto by drunk guys more than other guy I know. This can range from a guy buying me free drinks to a guy literally walking up to me, touching my nipple and trying to get me to kiss him(the latter actually happened in the middle of a shop at 3am). A simple "no" usually gives them the message, but when that happens I can kind of understand how women feel being hit on by guys they have no interest in.

Maybe I'm overthinking this whole thing, but I imagine there must be some lesson to learn from this. Personally, I think that this means I'm attractive enough for girls to think "He'll be great for my friend!", but not attractive enough for them to think "He'll be great for me!". As for the guy thing, I'm pretty far in the "cute" part of the cute/hot sliding scale, so that could explain that. But I want to hear a more educated opinion. What do you guys think?