My ex doesn’t let me see the kids, she uses them as pawns and has made promises that she doesn’t uphold and I’m going on 8 months having no contact with them because I refuse to let her treat me like a personal ATM and it breaks my heart everyday. My cousin (not his idea) recommended I create separate emails for my kids and just write “to” them and when they get to an appropriate age give them the emails so they can access the messages if they choose. I’m sure this isn’t the first time this has been posted but I never had the idea nor would I had I not spoke to my cousin, I just wanted to post this on the off chance that this might help one person dealing with a difficult time. I hope everybody is keeping their head up and just know things will get better, things will get easier and things will work out. We deserve to be happy too. Thanks for reading.