I think that people have decided to use an inocuous term to discredit any man who feels frustrated by the state of his love life. Especially his live life in relation to others.

As it stands this is the meta.

Axiom 1 : " Real Nice guys don't struggle in dating "

axiom 2 : " If a guys struggles in dating and is upset about it and talks about it he is not a real Nice guy "

Conclusion : " Fuck those guys.They are not nice guys anyway and don't deserve anything "

Guys who complain about dating and how difficult it is are worth insulting because they are not really nice guys. And if they are not good people it's ok to treat them like shit.

After all the bar is in hell....

Inclosing I guess I wanted to ask the blue pill and female overlords what is - who is the woman aproved man and in what woman approved ways is he allowed to complaint about his lack of dating sucess such that he remains worth of personhood and sympathy.

Or is it that men who are unsuccessful deserve nothing by default?