This is a hard-hitting realization—and I guess the definition of "fine" varies from person to person, but to me it seems like most people are really just indifferent at best when it comes to any type of violence that doesn't come from a man. This may seem obvious to the sub at this point, but the implications are a lot weirder than you'd be comfortable thinking.

Seriously, think about it: a woman rapes a kid, most people are fine with it. A man does it, what do the majority do? Engage in immediate disgust: signal to everybody that he did a horrible thing that should be punished. Not that that's untrue, but when the woman does it, it's not seen as such. At best, it's just seen as "meh, whatever" and even mostly ignored.

What does this tell you about the act of rape itself, removing gender from the equation? Here's an eye-opening thought snack: most people are not very concerned about it at all. The act of rape itself is actually not abhorred; it is the very idea of a man committing it that disgusts people and has them in outrage. Whenever a woman does it, nobody cares.

Same thing for torture, murder, and honestly, many other crimes. This isn't all-encompassing, as most women will be subject to outrage in some capacity by at least some people, but for the most part, the very discrepancy between the genders for sentencing, outrage, and punishment is a testament to the crimes themselves being okay in society's viewpoint. In general, society has come to view violence as very unbecoming of a man, and that's... really all it is.

Not only does this open the eyes to hypocrisy in sex and gender, but it also shows the dishonesty in even pearl-clutching over the sins of a male criminal in the first place. Look at it as such: if you are okay with rape and violence being committed by anyone other than a man, or, if you aren't going to even try to raise hell about it or even look like you care, you don't actually care about it even when a man does it. What this shows, exactly, is that you are merely out to punish men for the gender they are and not for the crime they committed. The crime is a convenient excuse, yes, but from the beginning, misandrists only pretend to care about such issues. The fact that they remain silent when women are the perpetrators (and even also the victims, as seen in cases where lesbians are victims of DV) speaks volumes about this.

I would post this to somewhere more appropriate, such as CMV, but you probably can't CMV about this anyway and Reddit won't allow you to even think about it in mosts subs; you know how Reddit is.