Could the more advanced members of the community chip in some solutions for me here? I have a strong background in daygame but relatively inconsistent and inexperienced nightgame.
My game is almost like I'm in an meditative state, which relies on a lot on flirting and feeling inwards to transfer emotions. But verbally I become muted on the dancefloor so one of my strongest weapons is taken away.
Problem 1
I find it very hard to elevate my energy to the crowd on the dancefloor to open, as it becomes very incongruent for me. It's almost a congruency nightmare to open a girl jumping up and down. I have a much different feel compared to the enviorement especially when the DJ plays rap music. What do I do here? Do I just open a bit slower? Let her take it in?
Problem 2
On the escalation side of things it's rather incongruent for me as well since I am forced to escalate quickly physically as there is no other option. This is quite the problem for me because I dont have the time to feel inwards and take it in. My internal emotional uncertainty causes incongruency and it translate to me freezing up when physically escalating.
Problem 3
Sharing some tips on how to deal with dancefloor AMOGs and friends is certainly appreciated. I have a habit of just moving on because I really dislike doing things like body blocking. Is there more graceful solutions?
Problem 4
The club is dark and sometimes its hard to see her face. Is there any body language indicators you use that signifies guarenteed consent for a logistical escalation to a quieter place in the club?
The basics of game is certainly not a problem. I went out yesterday and kissed with an 8 and the pre selection caused girls to open me instead. This is just to iron out the problems in my style of pickup. Thanks for chiping in!
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