Jealous because your buddy pulled and you not!

SovereignWings · 2015-09-20T09:26:44+00:00

GO FUCKING LIFT AND IMPROVE YOURSELF. Be happy for other men's successes and you will stop dwelling on your own insecurities.

There is a certain member of my wider friend circle who is a Chad Thundercock. HB6-9s will actively open him in clubs without him having to lift a finger. There was a lengthy discussion about his favorite sexual moment, where a girl did a line of coke off his 9" cock (believable).

Thing is, I feel like it's useful to me hanging out with him. It's psychologically beneficial for me to be exposed to those scenarios and behaviors, because it broadens my perspective.

Truth is objective. Reality is reality. If you ignore reality, it will automatically turn against you. Don't let your ego get in the way here. Be happy for your "friend", and just try to understand what is going on. Why is he pulling more than you? Does he have game?

Hot guys have it easier, just accept that. Some people get lucky in the genetic lottery, others don't. The important thing to remember is that whatever his recipe for success is, YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN. There are guys in the main sub who are ugly, short, fat, old but full of game and alpha frame. They fucking slay it despite their "disadvantages", because men are not valued on any one attribute. Men are evaluated on many attributes, with leadership and dominant qualities being the top of the pyramid.

Schopenhauer, On Women https://ebooks.adelaide.edu.au

Focus on the descriptions of sexual economics. Women, even high powered, influential, wealthy women, are still valued primarily for their sexual desirability and beauty. Men are valued for their status, assets, and dominance. Looks are just one of hundreds of attributes describing the value of a man.

egoisenemy · 2015-09-20T09:16:47+00:00

Perhaps you feel lesser when your buddy pulls and you dont, making comparisons like your game sucks compared to him. Then maybe those feelings make you feel jealous because of you had pulled like him, you wouldn't make such negative comparisons. Or maybe im completely wrong

fnordsnord · 2015-09-21T03:31:51+00:00

Grenade rule, little brother.

If your bro is pulling a hot chick, you gotta open her fat companion to prevent cock-blocking. Sacred obligation.

throw_em_all · 2015-09-21T20:23:22+00:00

Not at all, I never felt happy for someone else's "victories", not even like when good stuff happens to my parents which I love unconditionally.

But I never felt jealous of buddies pulling, I feel competitive though, like I feel their game is improving and I shouldn't be the exception.

Title	Jealous because your buddy pulled and you not!
Author	Hawadleh
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	September 20, 2015 8:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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