background Asked a lady friend out for drinks. Both 21 and in college. I didnt call it a date, but right from the start I was touching her, teasing her before we even got to the bar.

the date -I first sat across from her to see how she would react twp sofas facing each other, after 1 min, she says 'I dont feel close' so she came and sat right next to me -we was both very touchy, I had both my hands on the bare skin of the legs. I moved in the a kiss, but she moved her chin but she remained close. -I stopped talking and she started it again, I sense she was nervous as she kept tapping my arm -she saw loads of texts on my phone from friends, she said im popular and she moved even closer

escalation -walking to the other bar, I had my hand on her ass, and the other hand she was holding, with fingers interlocked, we looked like a couple, laughing and flirting with each other. Some drunk guys shouted at me, that I need to have a condom ready -At the other bar, the conversation turns to sex, masturabtion, sex toys, fetishes, orgasms, sex positions. I have never ever had a conversation with any of my close female friends even when drunk and she was enjoying it by giggling. -my hands are all over her, -her bare legs she put over my legs, so my hands are touching her inner legs really close to her short skirt -then she then says 'we should invite each other to our weddings' So i got wedding zoned lol -she said I am her best friend.

end -to salvage dates, I like to go clubbing, becuase a bit of body to body grinding and picking them up has always worked to open up girls. However she complained that her knee hurt, and to be fair her left knee was swollen and it got really cold out. So I called it a night

what should I do -I do have an abundance mentality but that doesn't mean you should give up to early when you made some mistakes -do you guys think I could do anything differently? -I was very dominate as I could be in public places, touching her ass while we walked, I have not done this before on a date, but I had my whole hand on that ass.