Hey, so I’ve messed up a lot by being impatient, oblivious, and honestly kinda ignorant. Because of that, I’ve missed out on a lot of opportunities and ended up with a pretty bad reputation in my community—not like people hate me, but more like I just don’t live up to what girls expect.

What are some realistic ways to bounce back, improve myself, fix my reputation, and maybe even have a shot at getting some of these girls to see me differently?