I have heard many times this advice when someone has a difficulty saying soemthing and the advice seems to be “keep it simple, just say hi what’s up” Like yes you can say that, but are you really gonna pretend that those type of messages get ignored the vast majority of time and that in the rare circumstance that it gets an answer the conversation ends up dying anyway after a few more “simple” messages?

I think the people who give that type of advice should simply not give any advice at all. Because assuming it works for them, they often fail to understand that while they might be able to keep a woman massively invested after a simple message like that, others can’t because they simply don’t know how to keep it interesting after that.

That assume that anything that comes to mind works but fail to recognize thay for many people nothing comes to mind, and if by coming up with literally anything you mean saying shit like: “I have no idea what to say to you right now, because i suck at talking to women and i’m uninteresting as fuck,” yes thay also doesn’t work. Or if you mean just saying “hey i just masturbated to your pictures, wanna have sex?” because apparently “you just have to say anything” well that also doesn’t work. Or “just ask questions”, well interrogations also die down.

Seems like some people just can’t comprehend that many people just literally don’t have any social instinct or social intelligence at all to deal with others. Like literally don’t realize that some people are socially inept to the point of absolute cringe and that your generic advice is not enough.

Same goes for “bro, just be confident”, “just be funny”, “just have fun”, “just copy woth others do”,… Sorry but every one who says the words “just do…” is over simplifying something that might be simple for socially adept people , but not for completely socially inept people.