Maybe it's my experience and it's unique to me. but I feel like some if most of you might relate.

  1. We pushed their limit. I don't mean that as we did things to entitionaly hurt them. be we all did things that we thought weren't that big of a deal and they kept score and holding resentment. We only realized how big of a deal it was until they left. and for us it was too late to fix anything already. We were told countless time but we didn't take their thing as serious and took them for granted. and the thing with women? They do not forgive, the keep score of every single bad thing you do from the day you meet them.

  2. today, I looked at her TikTok, and the amount of negativity, toxicity and label throwing she had on her shared videos is baffling. I hate to use this word. but that amount of hatred towards men in some videos is astonishing, telling women how men should act, or how they should act, and to go to the next men once one messed up and not giving them chances. blah blah blah. I know there are men who do that too. but I am talking about the female part.

idk. anyone can add anything?