Notice how self-improvement and exercise is only advice given to men. Switch the genders all of a sudden the advice is misogynistic, body shaming, and men having high standards.

The comment section restored my faith in humanity. I was glad the comment section didn't try to dog pile on men who struggled to date.

Here two great comments.

1: "Not this nonsense again.

No, every man who is struggling with dating is not a rabid misogynist.
Reducing the entire conversation to "if you're not swimming in pussy you're clearly just a monster" is entirely unhelpful and only intended to further alienate people from each other.

Though I'm sure it appeals greatly to anyone who wants to just not talk about societal problems at all."

2: "I kinda hate this kind of discourse. Plenty of overall decent guys struggle quite a bit due to lack of socialization, awkwardness, and an increasingly insular society. Not to mention that a few fucking awful men makes everyone else have to be on guard all the time, which makes things even worse.

"You suck at dating so you must be a horrible human being" is a pretty huge leap that does a lot of harm to a lot of young men, and the overall dismissal of the subject whenever it is brought up is pretty shitty. Hell, even in this thread, on a sub that's among the most supportive ones I've seen on this site, both comments complaining that dating is hard are downvoted.

I'll always maintain that having problems with dating is mostly a skill issue and plenty of things can be easily fixed with enough dedication. But it's mostly a skill issue, not a deep rooted character flaw.

Not even saying it's on any particular group to fix that issue, but it's on everyone else to not be unnecessarily shitty to others"

Honestly I hate it when people boil down men issues to just dating. Since men have more important issues. But it's also funny how Feminists, or progressives love to use toxic masculinity and homophobia to shame incels or even men who are happy being single.