Wow.. just wow.

Found out through his ex girlfriend that my ex was seeing him 2 years before we had our baby periodically and 2 months after our child was born.

She sabotaged our relationship a month after that and blamed my job (traveling and away from home a lot) for the reason she left me. Her new partner is in the same line of work.

Can’t say I’m not surprised. Now everything makes sense. The lack of energy and effort from her to actually making this relationship work. The blow ups and gaslighting and deflecting all makes sense now.

It’s wild how they can’t take any accountability and wear these different masks around people to manipulate them and themselves.

On the bright side of things.. I no longer am as hard on myself for all her criticisms of me. I no longer have a single ounce of hope that we get back together to keep our family together. I can now properly process and heal and move on without wearing these rose filtered glasses on who she fabricated her self to pretend to be. It was all fake.. crazy how I was so blind to it all.

It’s scary how evil and selfish people you give everything to can be.

Hope she doesn’t manipulate my daughter to hate me like she does with everybody else in her life.

Should I let my ex know that I found out about this or just let them be?