The line between taking things seriously (selfimprovement) and being chill/laidback/DGAF

AFPJ · 2015-10-02T08:49:40+00:00

A difficult question is usually a poor one, there's no conflict or contradiction between those things. The size of a man is the size of his problems, always take what's important to you very seriously (boundaries, goals, no compromises).

Let your purpose consume you. When you're wondering how to grow your business 20% annually - not because you need to - but because you have to; you're compelled to. You wake up and obsess over it, unable to think of anything else and unfulfilled with trying to distract yourself. When your biggest problems are that much bigger than you, you'll naturally be "chill/laidback/DGAF" in your social affairs - because they'll be trifling, trivial and basically irrelevant to you.

motivatedcat · 2015-10-02T05:35:58+00:00

Outcome independence when it comes to women, friends and relationships.

I don't believe you should be outcome independent when it comes to your personal goals. That leads to mediocracy.

That's where you draw the line.

secret_barber · 2015-10-02T13:38:30+00:00

If my LTR purposefully disrespects me, I'll drop her like she's nothing. I'm chill, I'm laid back and I don't give a fuck ...but I also have clear, serious expectations for those that want to be a part of my life.

Title	The line between taking things seriously (selfimprovement) and being chill/laidback/DGAF
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Date	October 2, 2015 4:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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