So I'm trying to get better with physical escalation (this is specifically night game bars and clubs setting). One of the things I read from pickup books is you can just grab a girls hand to see if she's interested or to implement some kino but when exactly do I actually do this?

I was at the club the other night and got into a conversation with this hot foreign blonde. I was starting to flirt a little more with her as the conversation progressed but I was trying to think of a way to initiate a little bit of touching but was interrupted too quickly before I could get to it and she left with her group.

Right now, with any chicks with tattoos I approach. It's almost automatic at this point since I've drilled it multiple times and I'll just point out their tattoos and I'll rub my fingers gently over wherever the tattoo is to implement kino during our convo.

At the moment, the thought of just grabbing their hand out of nowhere just seems unnatural to me although a lot of the stuff I've been doing now seemed unnatural at first like cold approaching overall and many other things until I tried it and now cold approaching feels natural to me so I'm going to try and experiment with hand holding to add it to my seduction toolbox but would like some insight and feedback as to how and when I should be doing this.

I think the best way to describe my state at the moment, I'm able to initiate kino when I have a good reason or an excuse. I see she has a tattoo. Therefore, I am able to touch her smoothly in the area of her tattoo. If I see she has nice hair. I will touch her hair and gently some parts of her cheekbone and joke about how do I get hair like hers.

But grabbing and squeezing her hand out of nowhere? I feel like they will just say to me or ask me why I grabbed their hand. I'm a pretty good bullshitter to think of an excuses on the spot If it ever came to it lol.

Let's take the first chick I described. Say I'm continuing my teasing, joking, and bantering, do I just grab her hand during the middle of the convo and just hold it and see if she holds it as well or pulls away? If she doesn't pull away, do I just keep the convo going as usual?

If she does pull away, do most chicks acknowledge this and it sours the interaction? Do most girls get mad or ok with it? If she asks why I'm holding her hand, what do I say? Or am I suppose to just grab her hand a bit let go and keep the convo going?

Just want to be prepared on what I should expect here next time I'm out.