Hi Seddit.
I have been dancing Latin dances (salsa/bachata/etc.) for about a year. I originally wanted to learn as an excuse to meet women but that fell by the wayside and I have fallen in love with dancing itself. I am taking classes three nights a week and going to social dances two nights a week these days. Multiple ladies have told me that they "I enjoy dancing with you" and "dancing with you is effortless". I think it's fair to say that I am a decent lead.
I now want to also use dance as a way to meet people, especially because there are many attractive ladies in salsa socials and what the eye sees that man wants ...
My main issue is that there are certain men in the salsa community who are known for hitting on everyone, and I have seen the way my female friends in the community talk about these men. Let's just say that there is little respect for them and they have no chance in hell with any of these ladies.
Does anyone have any tips on how I can escalate things with ladies I dance with in a classy way without developing a bad reputation in the community?
I dance with lots of attractive ladies, many of them older ladies who are very attractive. With the younger ladies, I don't know how to transition from only knowing them from dance to knowing them outside of dance and learning more about them/ seeing if I am interested in more.
With the older ladies, my age seems to disqualify me in their eyes. I am not sure how to signal to them that if they are interested I am interested without hitting on everyone and being added to the list of "asshole who's here just looking for a fuck".
Personal information: 28M/live on my own in mid-sized city in Canada/ employed full-time in a well paying job/ 6 1'
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