So I have been with several girls in the past. Mostly dating apps, mutual friends, or girls I knew from school. I’m known as a social person, so talking hasn’t been a big issue. I stepped away to focus on myself and stopped going out and pursuing females for maybe about 2-3 years.

These past 6 months, I started getting out there again. I started to get exposed to this method or “strategy” in talking to women. Some of it being helpful, but for the most part I stick to who I am which naturally is solid. In the past 6 months. I’ve been able to go all the way with 5 girls. Then another girl it was strictly oral. Then more than a handful of making out. I have gotten several numbers. I get it the game. It is what it is. But I’m curious.

Why are most of these interactions strictly stuck to just make outs? Even when we’re literally all over each other and touching all over. Am I escalating to the next step wrong? Can yall give me tips or insight on how you guys usually escalate from making out to getting her to go with you? I’m just curious.

On a side note, I’m also getting to point of I just want one girl and to solely focus on a relationship. But shit man, it’s kind of tough.