How to overcome the shame created by feminism?

Jedi_Lazlo · 2025-03-31T11:41:32+00:00

Shame is an internal emotion.

It only occurs when others embarrass you by pointing out your faults and flaws.

The answer lies in two approaches:

First, don't have a bitch bushido. Have an actual one. Carry yourself honorably. Don't lash out or mimic the behavior you don't like.

Understand that those who suggest these tactics are why these certain women are triggered in the first place. Don't participate in the shit slinging. Rise above it.

Treat others with given, not earned respect. Remove that respect when it is lost, but don't walk around treating people like an asshole until they "earn" your respect.

Don't set conditions on holding yourself to a higher, more difficult, honorable standard all the time . Just be that way.

And not only will the bullshit accusations go away and be replaced by those who trust and depend on your honor and good name...

...but that second approach will kick in automatically .

Because when the crazies and fanatics come at you up on their bullshit it will bounce off your internal shell like bullets off Superman's chest.

That shit only works when you know you could be a better man in whatever way you are being attacked and put on front street.

It's an inherently matronly skill. That's why it feels like mom scolding.

But if you actually walk the path and your bushido is honorable, that....shit....don't...work.

You will literally laugh out loud in their face at the concept as a natural reaction from your center...your gut...your fucking soul.

Because they will be sooooooooooo wrong about it that not only won't you feel that old twinge of shame or frustration, it will be replaced by instant recognition that you aren't dealing with a rational person so why bother to be upset at their wrongness.

You cannot reason with a fanatic.

You cannot retaliate against unreasonableness with more unreasonableness and expect a reasonable outcome.

You can eliminate internal shame by being a better person than you were yesterday. Every day.

You can center yourself in your own strength and honor and let it be your shield against idiocy and fanaticism.

Woman or man, those who attempt to change you through shame will instead find you there to protect you.

Let the daily work of this approach pull in those who belong in your circle. And push out those who would lessen you any way they can.

May it take you to a place where you like what you see when you look inward.

Good luck.

Godspeed.

CutiePie0023 · 2025-03-31T11:52:58+00:00

Honestly, shame them back. One of their tactics is to “shame men, make them feel week, less than and guilty” why not give them the same treatment back?

Blayze_Karp · 2025-03-31T13:36:53+00:00

You have to do the very difficult thing and not let hormones make you soft. There is a deep instinct to please women hoping it will get you laid, but it won’t. You need to disregard it, do the honorable things in life with or without women. If you are sure of yourself and your purpose, you are invulnerable to shame. Shame lives in the cracks and failures.

FineDingo3542 · 2025-03-31T14:34:02+00:00

Stop being a pussy and letting other people dictate how you feel about yourself. Start there.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-03-31T15:25:43+00:00

Well, it's the shame created by Feminist Ideology, not Feminism.

The solution is to ignore them completely, as they believe in unhinged ideas like this:

"Feminist, Monique Wittig argued that heterosexuality is not innate but rather a social and political construct. In her groundbreaking essays, she proposed that heterosexuality functions as a societal institution designed to maintain gender divisions and enforce male dominance."

Yeah, why in the world would you listen to these people?

OddRemove2000 · 2025-03-31T16:40:08+00:00

I am proudly horrible person. They want to call me racist sexist etc for no reason?

Say YUP! So what. I'm unapologetically me.

Its basically a shit test. If someone calls you a nazi, say your swastika tattoo is scheduled next week

alter_furz · 2025-03-31T11:16:51+00:00

shame them back. their tactic is "shame men and make them look guilty while they are defending themselves"

use the same tactics everywhere. call them out on insta, in tiktok comments, everywhere.

Fair-Might-5473 · 2025-03-31T17:11:01+00:00

The easy answer is to judge back. It's easy to judge someone, but the moment people judge back, they want to hold on to their victim mentality. If people want to have a say on you, you get to have as much to say on them. It's that easy. If you're an incel, they're a left over. Sexism is a two way street.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2025-03-31T17:38:25+00:00

OH, WISH I COULD UPVOITE THIS OP 10,000 TIMES. People don't understand how big of an impact this has.

TheForgottenUnloved · 2025-03-31T13:54:28+00:00

For me personally, watching female MRA youtubers was like rewriting a badly recorded cassette tape if you get my metaphor. Might not work for everyone but id try that

We all need mother figures, if the mother figure becomes abusive in your head, male MRAs are okay but in the lowest lows they did nothing for me compared to the female ones bc i guess a mother figure is different

Karen Straughan and Sh0ehead

And idk some others i forgot

Current_Finding_4066 · 2025-03-31T11:46:41+00:00

First stop paying attention to any sources promulgating such ideas.

Frird2008 · 2025-03-31T11:56:05+00:00

Understanding where the shame is coming from is a good start. Empathizing with the reasons why they resort to shaming tactics & taking responsibility on our ends to not become like the people the shame is being most strongly directed to is a good follow up. Even if you take full responsibility to not become like the people they're directly talking about, you might still be subject to the shaming tactics by virtue of being in the same cohort, but at least you will maintain your dignity by doing what it takes not to become like the people the shame is being targeted towards.

men-too · 2025-03-31T14:29:45+00:00

One of the best ways I found is to join a men’s group, ideally in person. I don’t know where you live but look up “the mankind project” for instance.

feriouscricket · 2025-03-31T23:31:57+00:00

"Not possible"* probably something ingraved deeply in the being can't be easily removed

Paratonnerre_ · 2025-04-01T07:26:45+00:00

What if there was a country that only had men?

Upstairs-Mud-9906 · 2025-04-01T01:10:52+00:00

Most feminists now are not true feminists. Try to ignore them, dont debate, and find people who support you. Dont be ashamed of being male I'm sorry you feel that way. Much love.

Euphoric_Passenger · 2025-03-31T12:21:40+00:00

Any specific scenario or instance where you feel ashamed of your sexuality?

Pitsburg-787 · 2025-03-31T13:22:23+00:00

I'm not shame at all.

I'm glad the Red Pill came prior this shame campaign.

IceCrystalSmoke · 2025-03-31T14:51:41+00:00

The media creates content that makes them money. They follow tried and true algorithms that have worked in the past. If that’s sexist propaganda then that’s what you see. TV isn’t real life. A lot of women in real life don’t see you as a sex pest, and also get uncomfortable by the same content.

IllEntertainment1931 · 2025-04-02T17:43:13+00:00

Its funny how society simultaneously shames and profits off of the relentless manipulation of male sexuality.

Title	How to overcome the shame created by feminism?
Author	Valstraxas
Upvotes	195
Comments	34
Date	March 31, 2025 11:13 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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