So I'm a 21 year old senior in college, dating a 23 year old who just graduated college. I know, date younger and all that. We've been dating for 2 and a half years so much of my time in college. Although I had dated before her and "hooked up", I had never gotten past making outs, was pretty bluepill in highschool and finally gained confidence in college. Anyways I had sex with my now gf on our first "date", became friends with benefits for a few months and decided we liked each other enough to date. Honestly, it's been going great, she's hot, smart, wants to be a housewife in the future but also has a career that she can work at part-time and make great money. Sex is great by the way, I think we're past the honeymoon stage and we still fuck frequently and keep it exciting. But obviously, so far from my post you can probably already tell what my hangups are.

  1. She's older than me. I'm going into medicine and by the time I'm an actual doctor she'll be like 30, and if I want to have kids her biological clock is going to be an issue.

  2. I was a virgin before her (she doesn't know this) but she wasn't, she's had 3 partners before me, 1 was a boyfriend. I know that isn't high, but to my 0 it is to me. So I'm worried that I'm going to have the grass is greener on the other side issue if I stay with her. I don't really want to cheat right now (could change in the future) but I'm thinking more like break up with her for a while, have my fun, then get back with her.

  3. Let's say I do stay with her, and we're in it for the long haul. Do I ever let her know about my actual past, that I was a virgin before I met her? Or take that shit to the grave?

Honestly, I'm confused. I've told this girl in the past that I have no intention of getting married unless maybe in the context of kids, and she's been OK with that, she is an amazing girl and really the only issues I have with her are her age and my own regrets of not having fucked other girls. What do y'all think?