So this has happened to my friends and I quite often. We have a girl come up to us, she talks to whoever she is interested in, things start going well making out dancing etc. Then we initiate or sometimes she does. We start to go home together and then bam friend comes out of nowhere and completely stops it from happening and quickly drags them away and vanishes. Usually the larger gal in the group whom we call us guys call the refrigerator. They say they will be back and then never return. Is there a way around this or are we just screwed? 😂

Last night for example, had a girl approach me, she dragged me away from my friends, we started dancing/talking then I initiated kissing and we made out. In return she initiated to go home with me, told her friends nearby she was leaving with me and they were cool with it. I get 98 percent of the way out of the bar with her and the fridge comes out of nowhere, drags her away never to return and I’m literally at the door like wtf 😂, got her number said they would be back which we all know wasn’t happening. Any advice?