Do we alienate ourselves?

RedPillJax · 2015-10-14T13:32:19+00:00

Why aren't you asking girls out on dates? You should be approaching all the time - unless you're committed to a monk mode / MGTOW lifestyle.

You can't be jealous of guys (even betas, as you call them) getting dates while at the same time saying you only want to focus on yourself right now.

BrunoOh · 2015-10-14T14:03:30+00:00

If you're not making moves you're not going to get anywhere with girls, and if you are you're dealing with girls way, way below your smv.

Zunscriii · 2015-10-14T16:24:29+00:00

"asking girls out on dates isn't bluepill" This is/was a personal sticking point for me, don't fall into that trap.

IF you are a cool guys girls WANT you to ask them out.

Edit: I repeat don't fall into that trap. I rationalized not asking girls out on dates as alpha but really I was just too shy. Don't do this it will seriously fuck up your game. Avoid this rationalization at all costs.

Longest_username · 2015-10-15T01:11:23+00:00

I'm a fresher in university and I'm hitting the gym and keeping up with my hobbies, all things a man ought to be doing. Yet I can't help but notice that people who are acting in "blue pill" manners - texting constantly, asking girls out on dates etc are succeeding whereas since freshers week I've had no action whatsoever.

I'll tell you a little secret about the red pill man.

If everyone on this sub is so alpha IRL. Why are they spending the majority of their time posting on an internet forum?

If TRP is the ultimate be all end all truth. Why are most of us surrounded by good marriages in our day to day lives?

If hitting the gym was enough to get the poon, why doesn't every ripped guy have a gf?

The idea of improving yourself is the best message TRP can give you. Just don't take everything you read here as the word from god.

1NV0K3R · 2015-10-14T13:34:30+00:00

asking girls out on dates

where does it say not to do this?

texting constantly

you say constantly because they most likely already have some sort of relationship/qualification. if you text constantly after meeting a girl the first time for an hour, you show clingy/neediness. text for logistics at the start, develop a base, then you can text however much is appropriate for whatever goal you want.

the point is to get out and meet people as a fresher. so do that, but remember to maintain frame all that good jazz. if i could re-do freshman year with what i know now, shit would be a fucking imperial harem.

kabylewolf · 2015-10-14T13:36:16+00:00

I'm not disappointed in the lack of sex, I'd rather be focusing on myself until I know I'm at the prime of my potential

You're fine. It takes time for it all to click perfectly. And when it does you'll slay way past those blue pill guys. Also, don't know on blue pill attraction strategy. Plenty of redpillers pull chicks in with initially fooling them with bluepill type acts and then turning it on. It's part of some people's game.

You're at a stage you should be thankful for.. that you don't care you aren't getting laid. Stay in that mindset. A good chunk of gyus on TRP fake that mentality and it's blindingly obvious they still desire validation of what they're trying with sex. They ain't ready.

You on the otherhand, have all the critical pieces in place already. All you need is some more time and you'll be fine. Work on your body, run constant "what if" scenarios in your head and condition yourself to be fearless and strong in all types of situations and eventually putting it into practic the will be easy and next thing you know, you're spinning plates and life is coming at you, and favoring you.

throw_em_all · 2015-10-14T18:46:48+00:00

I don't alienate myself, I carefully screen the people I want to be around me.

Title	Do we alienate ourselves?
Author	-Petulance
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	October 14, 2015 1:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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