So what all goes into these decisions and how can i better build my case, below are what I have done how much will this actually benefit me. 3.5 year marriage, 133k me 55k her no kids together each one of are own. 1. I made more financial contributions to retirements, the bills, worked 2 jobs 70 hrs week for 2 years just to get the house in the first place. 2. Sweat equity have remodeled a ton in are house myself by YouTube etc 3. I pay all the bills manage literally everything about the house besides the grocery order 4. She contributed almost nothing to a retirement during the marriage but i have 88k contributed during the marriage will she get half of that.