Had a first date from someone met through OLD last night. We attended a dance class together and hung around the dance social for a bit. Then we were both hungry so we drove somewhere else and got a bite to eat. We then walked around the downtown area and popped into a few bars (neither of us drank).

Vibes very good, she complied with all forms of touch (holding hands, hands in her hair, around her shoulder/waist, etc. I mixed in a bit of push/pull, some sexual topics, some flirting, good eye contact, etc. I wanted to go for the kiss, so a couple of times I just stopped her and hugged, leaned to smell her neck/etc., but when I went for the kiss she pulled back and seemed uncomfortable.

I told her don't worry I'm not that kind of guy to force anything, and then lightened the mood with some playfulness. Then we drove back to her car (where the night started). As I was driving and we were talking, I touched her thigh (she was wearing a dress). I pulled the hand off at traffic lights but then would put it back, and started caressing her leg more and moving my hand quite close to her pussy. It was only once I basically reached the pussy that she very mildly put her own hand to signal "stop here". She also joked at one point asking if I thought her leg was like a loaf of bread (I was kind of squeezing at that point).

We got back to her car, both of us got out and walked to her car. I joked about something in her car, and we talked for a few mins while I was leaning against her car and she was standing a few feet in front of me. I didn't make attempts to pull her in and hold her while we chatted; if I could go back, I think I would have done this. Might have also been a good opportunity to take her hand and place it near my dick to see how she reacts, and who knows what it would have lead to. But instead I ended it with a quick hug as I decided to go back to the dance social by myself for a bit.

Also, I had told her earlier she should come by my place on the way home to check out something I knew she was interested in, so I at least made an attempt there as well.

Feedback/thoughts? I felt like I can be smoother/more natural with closing the kiss. I think because she was so receptive to the thigh touching I could have looked for more physical touch when we were standing outside her car at the end as well.