Why do we allow the fear of standing up stop men’s rights?

PerennialPsycho · 2025-05-21T05:50:01+00:00

Well i will explain with my case scenario.

My wife is abusive to my kids. The two bigger ones came to live with me and i am waiting to take the third in (he is 5 and she has decided to keep him to herself).

My own attorney, my ex-friends, all my collegues. Men and women, ill intended or good intended. Counseled me AGAINST speaking up. Because the woman will go berserk and accuse you of false things and get you jailed.

But i did stand up and they wrote a letter telling the world all the things she mistreated them with. It didn't make any difference to the judge.

So i understand if everyone is afraid to speak. You will sooner or later fall into one of the feminist categories and media hype thing. Rapist, sexual assault, incestuous, money, house, children. You name it, they will take it away.

jaceq777 · 2025-05-21T04:28:57+00:00

The society nowadays, post-MeToo is mostly rigged to serve women's interests. We might have some power, mostly politically in the personal sense, but the media and the society largely is against us as a whole (even a lot of men, mostly young, support the feminist brand of "women's rights"). Might be partly a reason for this fear you describe. Along with how we would be described, and how we were described in the past for fighting for our rights.

PerennialPsycho · 2025-05-21T20:11:03+00:00

We need to stop this alpha male beta male bullshit. And start to admit that we are the prize as well. Not just the women "offering" themselves to us. Tired of having to "satisfy" women in bed. You know a lot of women are bad in bed dont you ? Also stop going after it like it's something important. Put your seeds in a sperm bank and just chill.

World-Three · 2025-05-21T03:48:07+00:00

If men were standing together... A male loneliness epidemic wouldn't basically be the topic of the day.

We can all say whatever we want. What we do makes the difference. If men can't even gather together to be friends and embrace male behavior enough to not feel alone how are they going to stand up for rights?

I'd imagine men's rights feels like fight club to a lot of solo men. You might be a part of fight club, you might love it, but outside of it, you don't talk about it.

Think of the topic asking why men shame other men for being violated. You'd think having a little sympathy for your fellow man wouldn't cost you some manhood, but apparently it does to some men.

None of this is to say you're wrong... But if men can't even be friends or even care about other men who are / were hurt, expecting them to fight is a tall order. I mean look I hope I get to experience the comeback. I just don't feel it though.

Ace2Face · 2025-05-21T08:39:42+00:00

honestly i didn't even know there was this much hatred against us. i knew there was some fishy stuff but i thought we were mostly equal. so it all starts with awareness, talk to your fellow guys about whatever injustice you learned about and spread the word.

Let's also break the cycle of each guy trying to be a hero and handle all his problems alone. We must learned from the ladies that when you have a problem, having a support network is just as important as being able to handle your own shit, and if you got both? Unstoppable.

We need to stop being ashamed of admitting our failings, of admitting our fears. We can learn this from women.

Title	Why do we allow the fear of standing up stop men’s rights?
Author	Gen_X_Xoomer
Upvotes	45
Comments	7
Date	May 21, 2025 12:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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