Let me start by saying I filed for divorce about 3 weeks ago. We moved very fast knew each other for 10 months and lived together for 7 months then we got married . Didn’t even make it too a year marriage before I filed . We have gone no contact still living in the same residence we have a lease we didn’t buy the house . No bank accounts or cc’s or savings or anything together and we have no kids together . She has a kid(3m) from a previous marriage and I have a son from a previous relationship (7m). I filed because I just got tired of the track we are on . She doesn’t know how to take accountability and she’s not emotional at all. She told me she hasn’t been happy in awhile and she faked it at my son’s bday party in late April . I took that as she wasn’t happy with me and us and I packed a bag and left . She apparently was devastated but she never told me she was faking it until our blow up conversation

Well last night we got into it again . My son is upset that she’s not around anymore because they play video games together and he asks ‘why doesn’t she like me ‘ because she doesn’t say love you to him anymore she just walks on right by him ignoring him . It hurts and idk what to say to him . He doesn’t like being here he doesn’t like the silence . She said she’s a cold hearted b***h and she doesn’t like me and doesn’t want to be around me because she always will love him .

I don’t care about me but I miss the person I knew . For the record she’s not a bad person I think she’s just hurt . This is now her second divorce and somebody else leaving her and she’s turned her sadness into anger into me . It hurts . As far as living we are splitting everything 50/50 until lease ends in March of 2026 but when she doesn’t have her son she doesn’t stay here only when she has him because she doesn’t want him to know things changed .

I only want her to be happy .. I’m not going to talk to her anymore or anything. Just let her be and let her heal on her own . She’s a good person just a bad moment we both had them i contributed too I’ll be honest but I have to work on making quick decisions because of an argument and living with the results . She just attacks to hurt . Can’t talk to her .

I’m also just wondering what I can do to make it more peaceful ? The silence is killing me . I’ve checked into therapy and will be my 3rd week this week. It’s helped and helping but it’s just the start

I did block her on everything (social media and phone number ) it was pretty immature but also it was in heat of moment . I don’t want to add her back I don’t want her back I don’t want her back for anything physical . I just want my son to be ok when she’s around and her and I not to blow up on one another anymore

Thanks for the help !